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You’ve tried everything. But only when the weighted bear arrived, the silence finally came.
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The cuddle that takes your stress away
Why this weighted plush calms the nervous system within minutes
Calm for body and mind
The deep pressure reduces tension and helps with sensory overload.
Supports better sleep
Helps the body relax, making it easier to fall asleep, and stay asleep longer.
Easy to take anywhere
Unlike a blanket, he’s light enough to carry wherever comfort is needed.
Support for sensory sensitivity
Offers structure and safety for children with ADHD, autism, or sensory challenges.
Find out what others experience
Helps with sleep
Mara, mother of Miguel
By Mara V.
My son slept poorly and often lay awake in bed far too long, so I ordered Toby. He was very happy to receive the package. It comes in a beautiful gift packaging. And he really falls asleep much easier now. Not a single night without Toby anymore.
Helps with sensory regulation
By Lies
I'm sensitive and can regularly use some extra comfort. When I saw the Being Together website, that world spoke to me so much! When I feel a bit down I hold him and become calmer.
Natural calming
By Lisa
Super happy with my cuddle! The contact with Being Together is also great, they respond quickly to your emails if you have questions. The cuddle is super soft and good quality. Really notice a difference in my sleep since I have him.
Helps with anxiety management
By Emma F.
I'm very sensitive to stimuli and get quickly overwhelmed by noise and crowds at school. My mother ordered this cuddle because I often struggle with anxiety. At first I thought it was cute but when I held him it felt really calming. Now I always grab him when I feel stressed or when everything becomes too much and he really helps me calm down.
Brings Comfort
By Anonymous
Their site is super clear and easy. Ordered Toby in the evening and he was literally there the next morning already. Toby feels really good, nicely heavy and soft. He already helps tremendously. After a busy day at work I really look forward to chilling on the couch with him. Just gives me that safe, calm feeling.
What to Expect from Toby
30 day free returns
Size
40 cm – just right for a comforting cuddle
Weight
2.5 kg – feels grounding and calming
Washable
Hand wash up to 40°C
Material
Soft, skin-friendly plush
Age
Suitable for children aged 3 and up
Packaging
Premium gift box with ribbon – ready to give (even to yourself)
30 day free returns
Frequently Asked Questions
Deep Pressure Therapy (DPT) is a therapeutic technique that applies gentle, even pressure to the body. This pressure activates your parasympathetic nervous system - the part responsible for rest and relaxation.
Toby's 2.5kg weight provides this therapeutic pressure. It helps your body to:
- Lower stress hormones like cortisol
- Release calming hormones like serotonin and dopamine
- Slow down your heart rate and breathing
- Relax your muscles
The result? You feel calmer, safer and can relax more easily.
Toby is suitable for everyone from 3 years old who can benefit from extra peace and comfort:
Children (3-12 years):
- With sleep problems or fears
- For extra comfort
- Children with autism/ADHD
Teenagers (13-18 years):
- School stress and exam anxiety
- Emotional ups and downs
- Sleep problems due to stimuli
Adults (18+):
- Daily stress and tension
- Sleep problems
- Need for relaxation
- Anxiety and stress feelings
Seniors (65+):
- Restlessness and tension
- Feelings of loneliness
- Sleep disorders
Toby's 2.5kg is suitable for people from 10kg body weight.
Toby is specifically designed to help with:
Sleep problems:
- Difficulty falling asleep
- Restless nights
- Waking up early
Stress & Anxiety:
- Daily stress and tension
- Feelings of restlessness
- Overstimulation
- Emotional regulation
Also suitable for:
- People with autism or ADHD
- Anyone who needs extra comfort
- Everyone seeking more peace and relaxation
Please note: Toby is a wellness product, not a medical device. For serious complaints, we always recommend consulting a healthcare provider first.
Delivery times:
- Netherlands & Belgium: 1-2 working days
- Germany: 2-3 working days
- Other EU countries: 3-5 working days
Shipping costs: Always free!
We ship all orders within 24 hours. You automatically receive a tracking code so you can follow your order.
Ordered before 23:59 PM on working days = shipped the same day!
Yes! 30 days to think it over.
Not satisfied with Toby? No problem. You have 30 days to try Toby. If he doesn't suit you, you can return him free of charge.
How to return:
- Contact us via info@being-together.com
- We'll send you a return label
- Send Toby in the original packaging
- We process your return within 3-5 working days
Conditions:
- Toby must be in good condition
- Original packaging and labels must be present
- Return within 30 days after receipt
Returns are always free - we pay the shipping costs.
